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Sahih Muslim (Hadees Number: 2688) ​Waqya: Nabi Kareem (ﷺ) ek aise Musalman ki iyadat (mizaaj pursi) ke liye gaye jo bohot ziada bimar aur kamzor ho chuka tha. Aap (ﷺ) ne us se poocha ke "Kya tum Allah se koi khas dua mangte the?" ​Us Insaan Ka Jawab: Usne kaha, "Haan, main dua karta tha ke 'Aey Allah! Jo saza Tu mujhe Aakhirat mein dene wala hai, wo mujhe Is hi Duniya mein de de.'" ​Nabi (ﷺ) Ka Farman: Nabi Kareem (ﷺ) ne farmaya: ​"SubhanAllah! Tum mein itni taaqat aur bardasht nahi hai ke tum Allah ke azaab ya aazmaish ko utha sako. Tumne ye dua kyun nahi maangi:" ​"Rabbana atina fid-dunya hasanatan wa fil-akhirati hasanatan wa qina 'adhaban-nar" (Aey hamare Rab! Humein duniya mein bhi bhalai de aur aakhirat mein bhi bhalai de, aur humein aag ke azaab se bacha.) ​Uske baad Nabi (ﷺ) ne us shakhs ke liye shifa ki dua maangi aur Allah ne use sehat ata farmayi. ​Doosra Hawala: Jami' at-Tirmidhi (Hadees Number: 3514) ​Hazrat Abu Bakr Siddiq (R.A) se riwayat hai ke Nabi Kareem (ﷺ) ne farmaya: ​"Allah se aafiyat (sukoon aur khair) maanga karo, kyun ke imaan ke baad aafiyat se badhkar koi neemat kisi ko nahi mili." ​Aazmaish Aur Sabr Ki Dua Se Bachna Ek aur hadees mein aata hai ke jab Nabi (ﷺ) ne ek shakhs ko ye dua karte suna: "Aey Allah! Mujhe sabr ata kar", to Aap (ﷺ) ne farmaya: "Tumne Allah se aazmaish (musibat) maang li hai, iski bajaye Allah se Aafiyat (bhalai aur sukoon) maanga karo." (Tirmidhi) ​Isi liye Ulema farmate hain ke kabhi bhi gusse, jazbaat ya dukh mein aisi dua mat mango jo aapki bardasht se bahar ho ya zindagi ko azaab bana de. Hamesha Aafiyat, Rahmat aur Khair ki dua karni chahiye. Islam mein aulad ko baddua (curse/imprecation) dena sakht na-pasandida aur gunaah (haraam/makrooh-e-tahreemi) samjha gaya hai. Islam ne walidain (parents) ko sabr, tahammul, aur aulad ke haq mein hamesha neki aur hidayat ki dua karne ki taleem di hai. ​Aulad ko baddua na dene ke hawale se zail mein quran aur hadees ke spashth (clear) mufassal hawale (references) diye gaye hain: ​1. Hadees se Hawala (Reference from Hadith) ​Nabi Kareem ﷺ ki spashth mana'i (Prohibition): ​Sahih Muslim mein Hazrat Jabir bin Abdullah (R.A.) se riwayat hai ke Rasoolullah ﷺ ne farmaya: ​"Apni zaat ke khilaf baddua na karo, na apni aulad ke khilaf baddua karo, aur na hi apne maal ke khilaf baddua karo; kahi aisa na ho ke tumhari baddua us ghari (waqt) mein ho jismein Allah se jo maanga jaye woh qabool kar leta hai, aur Allah tumhari baddua ko qabool kar le." ​— Sahih Muslim: 3009 / Sunan Abi Dawud: 1532 ​Baddua Qabool Hone Ka Khatra: ​Walidain ki dua aur baddua ke baare mein Hadees-e-Pak mein aata hai: ​Hazrat Abu Hurairah (R.A.) se riwayat hai ke Nabi Kareem ﷺ ne farmaya: "Teen duayein aisi hain jo bila-shak-o-shubha qabool hoti hain: Mazloom ki dua, musafir ki dua, aur baap/walid ki apni aulad ke haq mein (ya khilaf) dua." ​— Sunan Tirmidhi: 1905 / Sunan Abi Dawud: 1536 (Hasan) ​Is hadees se saaf zaahir hota hai ke walidain ki zaban se nikli hui baddua seedhi qabooliyat ke darje tak pohnchti hai. Agar walidain ghusse mein aakar aulad ko koi baddua de dein, toh ho sakta hai ke us waqt qabooliyat ka waqt ho aur woh baddua poori ho jaye, jiska afsos walidain ko zindagi bhar rehta hai. ​2. Nabi Kareem ﷺ ka Uswa (Example) ​Nabi Kareem ﷺ ne kabhi kisi ke liye, yahan tak ke apne dushmanon ya na-farman logon ke liye bhi baddua nahi ki. Jab aap ﷺ se dushmanon par baddua karne ko kaha gaya, toh aap ne farmaya: ​"Mujhe la'nat karne wala bana kar nahi bheja gaya, balki mujhe rehmat bana kar bheja gaya hai." ​— Sahih Muslim: 2599 ​Jab Nabi Kareem ﷺ ne aam logon ya dushmanon ke liye baddua ko pasand nahi kiya, toh walidain ka apni hi jigar ke tukde (aulad) ko baddua dena kitna bada gunaah aur nuksaan ka baais hai. ​3. Walidain Ko Kya Karna Chahiye? ​Ghusse par qabu: Jab aulad koi na-farmani ya ghalti kare, toh walidain ko chahiye ke ghusse ke waqt apni zaban ko qabu mein rakhein. ​Baddua ki bajaye Hidayat ki Dua: Ghusse ya takleef ki halat mein bhi aulad ke liye hidayat, islah (improvement), aur khair ki dua karein. ​Misaal: Hazrat Ibrahim (A.S.) aur Hazrat Luqman (A.S.) ne hamesha apni aulad ke liye hidayat aur ta'at ki duayein ki hain (Jaise Quran mein Aaye-e-Karima: Rabbij'alnee muqeemas-salaati wa min zurriyyatee - Surah Ibrahim: 40).