You Got Older, But Did You Grow Up? 7 Quiet Signs

Getting older happens to everyone. Growing up doesn't. You can reach 35 or 50 without noticing that part of you stayed behind, because the signs are quiet. In this video: what psychology actually means by maturity, 7 quiet signs that someone never grew up, why it happens and why it is not too late. Chapters 0:00 Older is not the same as grown up 0:55 What maturity is 2:03 Sign 1 · It is always someone else 3:13 Sign 2 · Moods run the house 4:12 Sign 3 · You disappear when it gets hard 5:07 Sign 4 · Someone else holds the map 5:59 Sign 5 · Rules are for other people 7:00 Sign 6 · You cannot lose 7:41 Sign 7 · Today always wins 8:30 What the people around you see 9:43 Why it happens Studies mentioned • Roberts, Walton & Viechtbauer (2006), Psychological Bulletin · the maturity principle (92 longitudinal studies) • Rotter (1966) · locus of control • Miller & Ross (1975), Psychological Bulletin · self-serving bias • Gross & John (2003), Journal of Personality and Social Psychology · reappraisal vs suppression • Gottman & Levenson (2000) · defensiveness and stonewalling predict divorce • Arnett (2000), American Psychologist · emerging adulthood • Dweck (2006), Mindset · fixed vs growth mindset Silent Psychology is about what people never say out loud, and why. Subscribe for a new video every week. This video is for education and reflection. It is not a diagnosis or a substitute for professional help. #psychology #maturity #selfimprovement