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我们明明爱父母，却又常常想逃离他们。不是不孝，也不是冷漠，而是很多中国式亲密关系里，爱和控制、关心和干涉，常常被混在一起。 家人之间最难的，可能不是没有爱，而是太近了，近到没有边界。 一边愧疚，一边窒息；一边牵挂，一边想逃。 真正成熟的亲密关系，也许不是永远绑在一起，而是彼此相爱，也允许彼此成为自己。 如果你也喜欢《圆桌派》这种真实、清醒、直戳人心的讨论，欢迎点进我的频道合集，看更多精彩内容 🙌 We love our parents, yet sometimes we desperately want to get away from them. It is not necessarily about being ungrateful or cold. In many Chinese-style family relationships, love and control, care and interference are often mixed together. The hardest part may not be the lack of love, but the lack of boundaries. You feel guilty, but also suffocated. You care deeply, but still want distance. A truly mature relationship may not mean staying tied together forever. It means loving each other while still allowing each other to be independent. If you enjoy honest, sharp, and deeply relatable conversations from Round Table, check out more highlights in my channel playlist 🙌 #圆桌派 #中国式亲密关系 #原生家庭 #亲子关系 #家庭关系 #边界感 #RoundTable #Family #ParentChildRelationship