Here's how to tell if you should fix or leave your relationship. Create knowing with these 3 lenses.

How do you know if you should stay and fix a relationship, or leave? It can be incredibly difficult to tell the difference between a relationship that is going through a difficult season and a relationship that simply isn’t capable of becoming the healthy, fulfilling partnership you want. And sometimes, love makes that question even harder. But unfortunately, love isn't enough to determine if someone can help you build the life you want. And I think sometimes we wait for the big problems to happen before we feel like we can truly “know” whether we should stay or leave. But what if that moment never comes? What if you spend years waiting for something big enough to finally justify leaving, while life has been showing you the answer all along through the small, seemingly insignificant moments? The small problems that create just enough friction for you to keep trying to fix things. The small patterns you keep explaining away. The small moments that leave you feeling like something isn’t quite right - but never quite wrong enough to make you go. What if, instead of accurately seeing what those moments were trying to show you, you spent your life waiting for a problem big enough to give you permission to leave? That's what I want to help you to see with this video. To help you do that - I put together the top 3 lenses to take a look at your relationship through so you can take a look at relationship compatibility, emotional availability, relationship dynamics, and the patterns that can reveal whether your relationship has the foundation for long-term fulfillment so both people feel satisfied. Rather than focusing only on whether you love your partner, we’re looking at the bigger picture: what your relationship actually feels like to live in day after day. Because the most important clues about your relationship may not show up during the big conversations, arguments, or romantic moments. They may be hiding in the ordinary or even mundane parts of your life. Have you ever asked yourself... Should I stay or leave my relationship? How do I know if my relationship is healthy? Am I settling in my relationship? Why do I feel like I’m doing everything? Is my relationship one-sided? Can this relationship actually become what I need it to be? You may find these questions helpful especially if you're someone who can connect and go deep with people - but when it comes to your partner being able to feel fulfilled from connection and bonding doesn't seem to happen as easily and can't figure out why. Sometimes getting clarity doesn’t come from trying harder to make a relationship work. Sometimes it comes from learning how to accurately see the relationship you’re already in. Hopefully these lenses help you create enough knowing about your situation so you can feel good about making the decision to stay or leave. And if you recognize yourself in a relationship where you’re consistently carrying more than your share, check out this video about one-sided relationship dynamics:    • You're in a One-Sided Relationship - Spot ...   #relationshipadvice #relationshipcompatibility #healthyrelationships Chapters: 00:00 - Intro 00:45 - Lens 1 03:57 - Lens 2 07:53 - Lens 3