AITA for freezing our joint account after my wife booked a hotel with her ex?

At our anniversary dinner, my wife toasted “second chances” while a hotel confirmation under her ex’s name was sitting in our shared inbox, paid for from our joint account. I didn’t yell. I paid the check, drove her home, and started removing every dollar of mine from the lie she expected me to bankroll. ---------------🐋Whale Tales🐋--------------- #reddit #stories #redditstories