The Enneagram Three and Being Known | A Three's Wholehearted Journey with Maila Rito

Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/1265552/fa...) Series: Wholehearted Enneagram: A Year Through the Types | Type Three | Episode 2 of 4 Amy interviews Maila Rito about discovering she is an Enneagram Three after years of mistyping as a One and then a Nine, with the realization catalyzed by an August 2024 business crisis in network marketing where public goals, pressure for “more,” and missing a rank triggered shame despite outward composure. A friend encouraged her to read about Type Three, which felt exposing and brought childhood flashbacks, clarifying her drive, moving goalposts, high-functioning anxiety, and emotion-avoidance through constant doing.  Maila describes growth in naming and feeling emotions, setting boundaries to reduce comparison, and processing how Filipina cultural expectations around titles, achievement, and self-effacement shaped her. She shares how a convention stage recognition became a spiritual turning point, leading her to coaching and transforming “Tribe Rising” into a women’s community centered on belonging, healing, purpose, and grace, emphasizing the message that she is loved and enough apart from performance. 00:00 Meet the Enneagram Three 01:33 Mistyped as One and Nine 02:56 The Goal That Broke Me 05:56 Reading Three Felt Exposing 08:52 Chasing More Never Ends 10:53 High Functioning Anxiety 14:17 Learning to Feel Again 16:10 Tribe Rising Origin Story 21:23 Comparison and Boundaries 23:42 Filipino Culture and Success 26:51 Four Wing Push Pull 30:40 Faith Beyond Performance 34:34 You Are Enough Closing 👉🏼 Connect with Maila Rito on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/maila.rito?...) Support the show (https://www.buzzsprout.com/1265552/su...) RESOURCES FOR YOU: My book is now available! Wholehearted Enneagram: The Journey from Type to Transformation as God's Beloved  (https://amzn.to/4wyRpqM) Want a Podcast Playlist for Your Enneagram Type + a Wholehearted Feast of Freebies?  Start here ＞ https://www.simplywholehearted.com/en... Book a 1:1 call to learn more about Wholehearted Coaching with Amy Wicks:  https://www.simplywholehearted.com/ca... Want to know about becoming a Wholehearted Coach? https://www.simplywholehearted.com/fi... Not sure about your Enneagram Type? Start here: (https://www.simplywholehearted.com/en...) https://www.simplywholehearted.com/en... Connect with Amy: IG (  / wholeheartedenneagram  ) Website (https://www.simplywholehearted.com/)