My Love Language is You Talking Less

Billy Baldwin and Chynna Phillips sit down outside to do the love languages exercise their therapist assigned them. Chynna’s first reaction was “ugh, isn’t that so ’90s.” Billy’s was “I’m not sure this is the therapist for us.” What follows: his theory about emotional intimacy and physical intimacy and which one has to come first, her proposal that her love language might be him talking less, and the Easy-Bake oven timer she taps on his head. Then Billy tells the best story in the episode — about a friend of his born on Christmas Day who prayed one year for Rock ’Em Sock ’Em Robots and got them, and who still gets choked up about it fifty years later. And what happened thirty Christmas mornings after that, when his own daughter unwrapped an iPhone in the wrong colour. Stay to the end. Chynna tells jokes. Billy has to explain one of them to her. 📍 From the Chilly archives. ⸻ HOLDING ON is a docuseries about Billy Baldwin and Chynna Phillips, 35 years in. All new episodes drop Tuesdays and Thursdays starting November 17th, 2026! #BillyBaldwin #ChynnaPhillips #HoldingOn #ChillyArchives