How To Speak So Clearly People Assume You're the Smartest in the Room
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How To Speak So Clearly People Assume You're the Smartest in the Room
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How to speak clearly and sound smart - the psychology of verbal intelligence. This video looks at what the research actually shows about why some people sound brilliant in a meeting while others with better ideas get ignored: why big words backfire, why the order of your sentences changes what people believe, why your listener can't hear the "melody" in your head, why your voice carries more than your email, and why the person who speaks first so often walks out with the credit.
Five moves:
One - the long word. In a 2006 paper, Daniel Oppenheimer rewrote real application essays with longer words. Readers rated the writers as less intelligent, not more. Use, not utilize. Help, not facilitate.
Two - the first sentence. Reber and Schwarz showed people the same statements in easy- and hard-to-read colors. The easy ones were judged true more often. In a meeting, that points to one habit: bottom line first, then the details.
Three - the melody. In 1990 at Stanford, Elizabeth Newton had people tap out famous songs. Tappers expected listeners to guess about half. Listeners got three out of a hundred and twenty. That's the curse of knowledge. Tell people the name of the song first - one sentence of context, then a picture, not a principle.
Four - the voice. Schroeder and Epley found that evaluators - including professional recruiters - rated job candidates as more competent, thoughtful and intelligent when they heard a pitch than when they read the exact same words. Say it before you write it. At Gettysburg in 1863, Edward Everett spoke for two hours. The next day he wrote to Lincoln that he wished he had come as close to the central idea in two hours as Lincoln did in two minutes.
Five - the first to speak. In 33 small groups, the people who simply talked more were picked as leaders more often, even after accounting for intelligence and personality - the babble hypothesis. Don't talk more. Speak first, and short. And if someone repeats your idea as his own: "Right, that's the point I raised Monday. Here's the next step."
And the trap: fluency doesn't check facts. Ask for one concrete example - clear thinkers have one ready.
Sources:
Oppenheimer, D. M. (2006). Consequences of erudite vernacular utilized irrespective of necessity: Problems with using long words needlessly. Applied Cognitive Psychology, 20(2), 139-156.
Reber, R., & Schwarz, N. (1999). Effects of perceptual fluency on judgments of truth. Consciousness and Cognition, 8(3), 338-342.
Newton, E. (1990). Doctoral dissertation, Stanford University - the "tappers and listeners" study, as described in Heath, C., & Heath, D. (2007). Made to Stick. Random House.
Schroeder, J., & Epley, N. (2015). The sound of intellect: Speech reveals a thoughtful mind, increasing a job candidate's appeal. Psychological Science, 26(6), 877-891.
MacLaren, N. G., et al. (2020). Testing the babble hypothesis: Speaking time predicts leader emergence in small groups. The Leadership Quarterly, 31(5), 101409.
Edward Everett to Abraham Lincoln, November 20, 1863 - Abraham Lincoln Papers, Library of Congress.
Chapters:
0:00 Why The Room Rewards The Easiest Person To Follow
0:48 Five Moves And A Letter From 1863
1:39 One: The Long Word
2:04 Big Words Make You Look Less Smart
3:27 Use, Not Utilize
4:13 Two: The First Sentence
5:01 The Colored Text Experiment
5:51 Bottom Line First
6:55 Three: The Melody In Your Head
7:20 120 Songs, 3 Correct Guesses
8:32 Name The Song Before You Explain
9:11 From Your Words To The Room
9:37 Four: The Voice
9:57 Heard Vs Read: The Recruiter Study
11:11 Say It Before You Write It
11:38 Gettysburg: Two Hours Vs Two Minutes
12:50 Five: The First To Speak
13:13 The Babble Hypothesis
13:59 Speak First, And Short
14:23 The Dark Side Of Sounding Smart
15:44 Who Do You Think Is The Smartest?
16:30 All Five Moves Together
16:53 Your Task For Tonight
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