Marriage Advice For Men: Why Your Wife Feels Neglected | David Shands & Rashard Duncan

What does it really take to build a marriage that lasts? In this episode of The Selection Process, David Shands sits down with Rashard Duncan for an honest conversation about marriage, intimacy, faith, money, and the lessons he’s learned after nearly two decades of marriage. Rashard shares his journey from treating sex casually to making the decision to wait until marriage, building a family, navigating finances with his wife, and eventually realizing that providing financially wasn’t enough. While chasing success, he had to learn that his wife still needed his presence, attention, affection, and intentionality. They also discuss premarital counseling, combining finances, supporting your spouse’s purpose, scheduling intimacy, balancing entrepreneurship with marriage, and why your hustle can become a problem when your spouse no longer feels prioritized. This conversation is about more than finding the right person. It’s about becoming the person capable of building and maintaining a healthy marriage. Comment your biggest takeaway below and subscribe for more episodes of The Selection Process.