staying calm and weirdly hard to ragebait is easier than advertised

Why does one impressive person walk into a room and suddenly everyone forgets how to behave normally? This is about staying calm socially — why certain people make us self-monitor, pedestalize them, and quietly hand them the remote control to our nervous system. Which is rude, considering they didn’t even ask for it. More importantly: how to stop doing that. We break it down into three steps: observe, equalize, choose. Also, senior executives forget passwords too. Life is easier than advertised. #socialconfidence #confidence #psychology