You Say You Want It. So Why Aren’t You Doing It?

You can see the life you want. You’ve thought about it, talked about it, maybe even planned for it. So why does it feel like you’re still standing in the same place? In this video, Dr. Shari Nicole walks you through three questions to help you understand the gap between the life you say you want and the life your everyday choices are creating: Do I want it? Can I do it yet? And what am I willing to do differently? You’ll learn how to recognize what’s really getting in the way and whether you need more clarity, new skills or resources, or a different approach to taking action. What's Inside This Video: 00:00 Why You’re Not Living the Life You Want 05:10 Question 1: The 'Want' Gap - Do You Really Want It? 10:49 Question 2: The 'Can' Gap - Can You Do It Yet? 18:08 Question 3: The 'Do' Gap - What Are You Willing to Do Differently? 23:26 How to Identify What’s Really Getting in Your Way 25:06 A Simple Practice to Get Unstuck 26:28 Three Questions to Help You Move Forward 27:09 How to Know When It’s Time to Change Your Goal 31:31 Work with Dr. Shari & Resources Subscribe:    / @drsharinicole   Try Preply & Save 70% Off Your 1st Lesson: https://preply.com/en/?pref=MjM3OTEyM... Who is Dr. Shari Nicole: Hey there, I'm Dr. Shari! Psychologist, wellness coach, speaker, and big believer in living on your own terms: with awareness, intention, action, and empowerment. Here to share tools, truth, and a little joy along the way! I’m building a life between North America and East Africa. Learning a new language. Planning a wedding across continents. Rebuilding everything I thought I’d stabilized. Some days with grace. Some days with tears. All days with intention. This is that story messy, honest, and yours if you need it. PS: If you came here from Instagram, a retreat, the WISE Journal, or someone who shared this with you, I’m so glad you’re here. There is room for you in this circle. Want To Go Deeper? I write about becoming, identity, psychology, and the questions we don't always have answers for on Substack. Read The Becoming Blueprint: https://becomingblueprint.substack.com/ Connect with me: Website: www.drsharinicole.com Instagram: www.instagram.com/drsharinikole/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/DrShariNicole Ready to Start The Work Today?! Schedule One-on-One Coaching: www.drsharinicole.com/book-online Becoming Kick-Start Resources: https://www.drsharinicole.com/categor... A note: The content on this channel is for educational and reflective purposes and is not a substitute for individual psychological care or professional advice.