The Psychological Reason You Attract the Wrong People I #WithNeera

Do you often find yourself surrounded by people who need you, but aren't there for you when you need them? In this video, I share my personal journey of breaking the cycle of attracting the "wrong" people. We dive into why we value ourselves based on how much we help others and how this "giver" habit often leads to imbalanced, exhausting relationships. If you feel emotionally overloaded or like you're constantly proving your worth to keep a relationship alive, this video is for you. Let's talk about finding balance, setting boundaries, and attracting people who genuinely value YOU, not just what you can do for them. Don't forget to subscribe to #WithNeera for more honest conversations on growth and self-care. Chapters 00:00 - Why your surroundings affect your emotions 00:40 - My personal realization: Being "too available" 01:43 - The trap of ignoring your own needs 02:40 - Why we feel valuable only when we are needed 03:20 - Noticing others' struggles before our own 04:10 - The myth of mutual support in imbalanced relationships 05:15 - Why you can't "fix" emotionally immature people 06:10 - The struggle of receiving help and the "giver" role 07:20 - Sensing imbalance but calling it "compassion" 08:20 - How takers recognize givers instantly 09:45 - The burden of always appearing "strong" 10:25 - Crucial questions to ask before starting a new relationship #WithNeera #Relationships #SelfGrowth #Boundaries #PeoplePleaser #EmotionalWellness #SelfCare #AttractingTheRightPeople #MindsetShift #LifeLessons