Being the First Born: The Pressure, The Privilege, The Problems | The Village Square

What does it really mean to be the firstborn child? For many families, being the firstborn comes with privileges—but it can also come with expectations and responsibilities that follow you for years. In this episode of The Village Square by Waltresosis, my wife and I sit down for an honest conversation about the firstborn experience. We discuss: • The advantages of being the firstborn • The responsibilities that come with being the eldest • Looking out for younger siblings • Parents' expectations of their first child • The pressure to always be responsible • The headaches that come with being the family “senior” • The sacrifices firstborns sometimes make for their families • Whether firstborns are sometimes treated like a second parent • And the things younger siblings and parents may not understand about the firstborn experience But here’s the big question: Is being the firstborn a blessing, a burden, or both? If you're a firstborn, tell us in the comments: **What is the one thing about being the firstborn that people who aren't firstborns will never understand? And if you're a parent, do you think parents place too much responsibility on their first child? Let's talk about it. 🎙️ THE VILLAGE SQUARE BY WALTRESOSIS Real Conversations. Real People. Real Impact. #TheVillageSquare #Waltresosis #Firstborn #FirstbornProblems #Family #FamilyResponsibilities #NigerianFamily #AfricanFamily #Parenting #Relationships #SiblingRelationships