The Old-Fashioned Habits That Make People Respect An Older Woman
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The Old-Fashioned Habits That Make People Respect An Older Woman
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Second Bloom и ещё 4
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For fifteen years Mrs. Lorraine Pruitt came into my shop every other Thursday at ten o'clock. Not around ten. Ten. When she walked through the door the whole room changed: the teenagers at the register stood up straighter, and I'd find myself smoothing my blouse. She wasn't rich and she wasn't stern. She was a retired schoolteacher in a town of four thousand, with more respect than anybody I've known. It took me years to see it wasn't one thing. It was a handful of plain old habits she never let go of.
In this one I'll walk you through the old-fashioned habits that make people respect an older woman:
⏰ Being on time, and handwritten thank-you notes in the actual mail
📛 Remembering names and using them, and getting dressed every day for wherever you're going
🤐 Not leading with the medical report, keeping your word on the small things, and saying it once
🤝 Keeping what people tell you, being gracious to people who can't do a thing for you, and never running yourself down for your age
…and the secret underneath all of them: people mostly treat you the way you've quietly told them to.
Pick one, do it for two weeks, and watch what shifts around you.
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Who's the woman you knew who carried herself like this? Tell me down in the comments.
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