Raised by emotional strangers

Anchored by James Baldwin’s insight on how children absorb behavior through imitation rather than words, The Lugards dives into the reality of traditional upbringing, disciplinary methods, and emotional boundaries within the family. We explore whether adult maturity requires giving our parents grace, and how to heal from past parenting methods without dismissing the effort they put in. In this episode, we unpack: 👉 The difference between childhood accountability and parental duty. 👉 Why we unconsciously mirror the exact habits we swore we would avoid. 👉 Cultural discipline unpacked: The long-term effects of traditional household rules. 👉 Shifting perspectives: Moving from frustration to compassion as we grow older. CONNECT WITH US: Instagram: @https://www.instagram.com/lugardians Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE and hit the notification bell so you never miss an episode! 🔔