THEY LIKE THE OLD YOU | 3 Views with Tina — Episode 11

Why People Resist the Change God Is Making in You Have you ever started making positive changes in your life, only to discover that the people around you aren't happy about it? Maybe you've started setting boundaries, taking your faith more seriously, speaking up for yourself, or simply refusing to accept the things you once tolerated. And suddenly, someone says: "You've changed!" Well, shouldn't we? Welcome to Episode 11 of 3 Views with Tina, where we're having an honest conversation about personal growth, spiritual transformation, relationships, and why some people have a difficult time accepting the person you're becoming. Sometimes people are comfortable with the old version of you because they know what to expect. But when you begin growing, your relationships may start changing too. And here's something else we need to talk about: Are people uncomfortable because you're growing, or are they trying to tell you something about yourself that you need to hear? Because not every criticism is an attack, and not everyone who questions your changes is against you. In This Episode, We're Talking About: Why people sometimes resist your personal growth What happens when you stop being the person everyone expects you to be Setting boundaries without feeling guilty How friendships and family relationships change as we grow Recognizing the difference between healthy growth and selfish behavior Why protecting your peace shouldn't mean avoiding accountability Learning to accept constructive criticism Why your past doesn't have to define who you're becoming How to recognize genuine spiritual transformation My View • Your View • God's View MY VIEW: Growth is necessary. We should be learning from our experiences, making better decisions, and becoming wiser as we move through life. YOUR VIEW: Sometimes the people questioning our changes aren't trying to hold us back. They may be pointing out behaviors we haven't recognized in ourselves. GOD'S VIEW: True transformation isn't just about changing our circumstances. It's about allowing God to renew our minds, change our hearts, and develop our character. Scriptures to Reflect On 2 Corinthians 5:17 (KJV) — Becoming a new creation in Christ. Romans 12:2 (KJV) — Being transformed by the renewing of your mind. Galatians 5:22–23 (KJV) — The fruit of the Spirit and the character that reflects spiritual growth. Now I Want to Hear YOUR VIEW! Have you ever made positive changes in your life and had someone tell you, "You've changed"? Did you feel encouraged, criticized, or misunderstood? And how do you know when someone is resisting your growth versus offering correction you genuinely need? Share YOUR VIEW in the comments! Your experience may help someone else who's learning how to navigate change. Support 3 Views with Tina If you enjoy honest conversations about real life, relationships, personal growth, and God's Word, please: 👍 LIKE this video 💬 COMMENT and share your perspective ❤️ SHARE this episode with someone who's going through a season of change 🔔 SUBSCRIBE to 3 Views with Tina so you don't miss our next conversation! WATCH NEXT: Episode 10 — Forgive Yourself Today! Your Past Does Not Have to Define Your Future. Remember This Growth isn't about proving you're better than someone else. It's about becoming better than you used to be. Don't stop growing because people are uncomfortable. But don't stop listening just because you think you've arrived. Keep learning. Keep praying. Keep allowing God to work on your heart. 3 Views with Tina My View • Your View • God's View Real Conversations. Real Life. Real Faith. "I'm Tina. And until next time… keep walking by faith." #3ViewsWithTina #TheyLikeTheOldYou #PersonalGrowth #SpiritualGrowth #ChristianPodcast #FaithPodcast #GodsView #SettingBoundaries #FaithAndLife #RenewYourMind #ChristianEncouragement #Relationships