才25岁，我为什么越来越不想谈恋爱了？｜Why I’m Losing Interest in Dating at 25

25岁，我越来越不想为了“不孤单”而谈恋爱。 不是因为我不相信爱情。恰恰相反，我依然相信真正好的爱，会让人更勇敢、更自由，也会让我们越来越像自己。 这期想聊聊，我是怎么从“需要有人喜欢我”，慢慢走到开始建立自己的安全感、认识自己，也停止追逐“我值得被爱”的证明。 如果你也处在一种——还是相信爱情，但越来越不想随便谈恋爱——的阶段，希望这期可以陪你想一想。 — At 25, I’m becoming less interested in dating just for the sake of not being alone. It’s not because I’ve stopped believing in love. If anything, I believe even more deeply that good love should make us braver, freer, and more ourselves. In this video, I talk about moving from needing to be liked to building my own sense of security, understanding myself, and no longer chasing proof that I’m worthy of love. If you still believe in love but feel less and less interested in dating just for the sake of it, this one might be for you. It’s not that I don’t want love. I just don’t want to lose myself looking for it. #dating #relationships #selflove #亲密关系 #爱自己 #女生必看 #单身