Dating Expert: Why You Obsess Over People Who Pull Away (And How to Stop)

🔔 Subscribe for new episodes:    / @seankim   ▶️ Recommended for you:    • I’ve Studied Couples For 35 Years... Why T...   Apologies, we’re missing the camera angle focused on Sabrina, so this episode uses only our wide shot and the angle on Sean. Thank you for understanding! Sabrina Zohar is a relationship coach, host of The Sabrina Zohar Show, and NYT bestselling author of Why Am I Like This?. She’s known for her honest, no-BS take on anxious attachment, dating patterns, and healing. In this conversation, she shares the story behind sending 173 texts at 22, why we keep dating the same type of person, and how to tell a real red flag from a trigger. In this episode, we discuss: 0:00 Trailer 1:31 The 173-Text Story: Protest Behavior and Anxious Attachment 6:08 Repetition Compulsion: Why You Keep Dating the Same Person 7:46 The Subconscious Blueprint You Never Signed Up For 13:25 How Disney Ruined Our Idea of Love 18:37 What Is a Trigger? Does the Pinch Match the Ouch? 29:42 Non-Negotiables and the Best First Date Questions 33:30 The “Spark” Myth: Why Healthy Can Feel Boring 38:41 How to Get Over a Breakup (Stop Trying To) 45:29 Self-Abandonment: Saying Yes When You Mean No 49:47 Icks vs. Red Flags: What’s the Real Difference? 54:05 Why Situationships Are Self-Abandonment 56:18 Instead of Ghosting: What to Say 58:32 Limerence vs. Love: Why You’re Obsessed 1:13:14 Why People Cheat: Sabrina’s Take on Infidelity 1:17:05 Sabrina’s Message to Her Little Girl Self Learn more about Sabrina Zohar here: Website: https://sabrinazohar.com Book (Why Am I Like This?): https://sabrinazohar.com/book Instagram:   / sabrina.zohar   Podcast Instagram:   / thesabrinazoharshow   TikTok:   / sabrina.zohar   📸 Connect with us on IG:   / growthminds.podcast   Made possible by: Jumpspeak: ⁠https://www.jumpspeak.com⁠ Follow Sean Kim Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heyseankim/... X: https://x.com/heyseankim?lang=en LinkedIn:   / heyseankim   Listen to this episode on the go 🟢 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2nOb...