The Keemah G Podcast Ep.23: Convenient or Committed? How to Know If Someone's Serious About You

Have you ever looked back at a relationship — or a situationship — and wondered how you missed the signs? Not because they weren't there, but because you didn't want them to be. In this episode, I'm getting personal. I'm sharing how I was used as a convenience and manipulated before I finally learned to stop reading effort as intention and start watching the actual pattern. We'll break down 7 clear signs that separate someone who's genuinely serious about building something with you from someone who's just comfortable having you around — plus the manipulation tactics (love-bombing, mirroring, strategic uncertainty) that keep good people stuck in situationships that never define themselves. This one's for every millennial and Gen Z listener who's ever hoped someone would come around, instead of trusting what their actions were already saying.