Would You Date You? A Midlife Dating Self-Audit

Would you date you? 😏 Be honest. We're asking the hard questions this week. This week, Jules and Michele turn the mirror around and ask the question every midlife woman needs to sit with: If you met yourself on a date, would you swipe right? 💋 What does it actually take to be someone's queen when you're out here dating in midlife? 👑 🌶️ WHAT YOU'LL LEARN We're digging into: ✅ The "standards checklist" (and why it only works if you meet your own) 🧳Why unhealed baggage keeps showing up on date after date after date 😬 Jules' real-life date with a guy who checked every box... except the right one 👻 Ghosting, time-wasters, and why we're done playing games 📱 The chaos of online dating (Swiper, no swiping 🙅‍♀️) 💖 And a little pep talk on looking within yourself before looking for "the one" Grab your wine, settle in, and get ready to do a little self-audit with us. Because if we want a damn king, we better act like damn queens. 👑 If your girlfriends need to hear this one too, send it their way. 😘 💬 JOIN THE CONVERSATION Are you dating with intention, or just having fun right now? No judgment either way! Have you ever ghosted someone, or been ghosted yourself? Spill the story. 👻 Online dating: love it, hate it, or refuse to touch it? 📱 Ever gone on a date with someone who checked every box on paper but just... wasn't it? What happened? What's one thing dating in midlife taught you that dating in your 20s never did? Tell us in the comments. 🔔 Subscribe to Spicy Midlife Women for candid conversations about midlife, relationships, sex, confidence, dating, menopause, friendships, aging and everything women are thinking but don't always say out loud. ⏱️ CHAPTERS 0:00 Would You Date You? 1:41 The Standards Checklist: Confidence, Effort & Emotional Maturity 3:00 Healing First: Why Unresolved Baggage Repeats Itself 6:41 Emotionally Available? A Real Dating Story 9:38 Ghosting, Time-Wasters & Dating with Intention 15:31 Online Dating, Dating Pools & Looking Within Yourself 🎬 RECORDED & PRODUCED BY JUST TALK STUDIOS Recorded and produced at *Just Talk Studios in Bellevue, Washington* — professional video, podcast and content production for creators, businesses and brands. 🌐 https://www.justtalkstudios.com #SpicyMidlifeWomen #WomenOver40 #SpicySisterhood #MidlifePodcast