6 hoovering techniques narcissists use to hoover you back.

6 techniques narcissists use to try to hoover you back. 1-innocent check in-hope you’re well, low states not threatening looks friendly. 2-fake apologies-looks like they suddenly transformed and are apologizing for everything they did. May claim they are getting help for things. 3-made up crisis-need your help and pulls on your empathy to help them and pull you back in. 4-flying monkeys- use friends and family to find out and pull you back in. 5-gaslighting and rewriting history-to make you question and version of history and get softer to them coming back. 6-baiting-using kids, belongings, pets, or paperwork to talk to you and see if you’ll come back. None of it is for love. It’s just about supply and control. Be careful how you proceed here you’ll most likely get hurt worse. Emil