Powerful or Powerless (Part 2): Why You Keep Playing Victim, Rescuer or Bad Guy

Ever noticed how every argument seems to need a bad guy? In this episode, Matt Flegler continues the Free and Responsible series, turning to relationships. Drawing on Danny Silk's Keep Your Love On, Matt unpacks the victim, rescuer, bad guy pattern that quietly runs marriages, teams, and even churches, and shares how he and his wife Jo ran it for years without knowing it had a name. In this episode: • Why every drama needs a bad guy, and how fast the seats swap • The exact exchange that used to play out in Matt and Jo's marriage over who was more exhausted • The four words that give away a powerless mindset • Five questions that help someone else without rescuing them • How to actually step out of the pattern for good Listen now, and find out which seat you've been sitting in.