When Feedback Hits Hard: Unmasking Your Defensive Voices

Ever get defensive with feedback? That's your 'FadeAway' response kicking in! Discover the 8 hidden voices that protect you (but might be holding you back). Learn to recognise them and reclaim your growth. Ready to master your reactions? Download the free guide in the description! 🧠 Resources & Links This is part 3 of my feedback series. If you haven't seen where it started, catch up here: 🔗 Video 1 — What Happens When You Receive Critical Feedback:    • What Happens When You Receive Critical Fee...   🔗 Video 2 — Feedback Doesn't Break You. Your Response Does.    • Feedback Doesn't Break You. Your Response ...   📥 Download the free F.A.D.E. A.W.A.Y.™ self-protective responses summary: https://tutuariyo.systeme.io/fadeaway... Referenced in this video: Thanks for the Feedback by Douglas Stone & Sheila Heen. *BOOKS:* amazon.com/dp/B0G42Z93FN *Let's Connect:* 🔔 Subscribe for more videos on self-leadership, feedback, and personal growth – with a little Lagos street energy along the way. 💬 Comment below: Which voice did you recognise in yourself? And if this made you think of someone, send it to them. 👍 Like this video if you gained something new. It goes a long way in getting this conversation in front of more people. Next up: three things you can actually do the moment feedback hits hard — regulate, clarify, and separate intent from impact. Subscribe so you don't miss it. *Timestamps:* 00:00 – Who takes over when feedback stings? 00:44 – Catch up: videos 1 & 2 01:14 – The moment it broke open (11:42pm) 02:39 – Meet F.A.D.E. A.W.A.Y.™ 03:51 – Fight Back 04:41 – Argue 05:20 – Deny 06:08 – Explain 06:58 – Avoid 07:45 – Withdraw 09:00 – Absorb 10:17 – Yield to self-doubt 12:32 – The power of the pause 13:14 – Get the FADEAWAY guide 14:04 – What's coming next #FeedbackTriggers #DefensiveBehavior #SelfAwareness #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalIntelligence