Feedback Doesn't Break You. Your Response Does.
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Feedback Doesn't Break You. Your Response Does.
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Tutu Ariyo
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79 просмотров · 11 дней назад
In this video, I break down the fight, flight, and freeze responses that show up when feedback hits close to home—and why these patterns don't just happen at work. They show up in marriages, with teenagers, and in friendships too.
Feedback doesn't break you. Your response does — and once you can see it, you can choose differently.
If you've ever taken a simple piece of feedback and turned it into a full-blown identity crisis by bedtime, this one's for you.
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Other Links: • Daniel Goleman's explanation of "amygdala ...
00:00 – The avoidance story
04:48 – Your feedback story
07:10 – Real-life examples
10:29 – Fight
12:05 – Flight
13:32 – Freeze
16:56 – Where self-leadership begins
19:24 – The One Question to Ask Yourself