“What if the thing that broke your life open is also the thing that leads you back to your purpose?”

When did keeping the peace become more important than keeping yourself? For many women, losing themselves in a relationship doesn’t happen overnight. It happens slowly one compromise, one swallowed opinion, one avoided conflict, and one “it’s fine” at a time. In this episode of the Passion to Payday Podcast, Becky sits down with Joyce Ayers, Heart-Centered Divorce Coach, Certified Conscious Uncoupling Coach, and Master NLP & Hypnosis Practitioner. Joyce shares her own journey from people-pleasing and conflict avoidance to finding her voice and navigating divorce in a way that honored both herself and her former husband. But this conversation goes far beyond divorce. Becky and Joyce explore what happens when women spend years putting everyone else first, why choosing yourself can initially feel selfish or guilt-inducing, and how to begin separating who you really are from who you learned to become in order to keep a relationship together. They also talk about conscious uncoupling, self-abandonment, boundaries, healing, and what it means to intentionally create your next chapter instead of allowing your past to define it. Connect with Joyce Ayers Instagram:   / awakenwellnesswithinreach   Facebook:   / joyce.ayers.395669   YouTube:    / @createyourlifeafterdivorce   Website: https://createyourlifeafterdivorce.com/ Ready to Turn Your Passion Into Payday? If you know you’re meant to do more with what you know, what you’ve lived, and what you’re naturally good at—but you’re still trying to figure out who you’re meant to serve, what to offer, and what steps to take next—join us for the Passion to Payday™ LIVE Virtual Event. 📅 October 27–29, 2026 Over three powerful days, we’ll help you get clearer on your business, your right-fit client, your offer, your messaging, and your path to consistent income—so you can stop guessing and start moving forward with confidence. Register now at: www.PassionToPaydayEvent.com