I Stopped Being a Good Black Woman, and it Changed My Life (for the Better)

Being called difficult and self-absorbed used to wreck me. Now it's how I know I'm on the right track. Years ago, I got up from a table in South Korea and walked out entirely. That one small act cracked something open in me. In this video, I share what I've learned about whose opinions actually deserve a spot in my life, and how I stopped letting outside noise override the one voice that matters. If any of this is landing for you, drop it in the comments. I read every one. And if you want to talk through what it looks like to actually build a life that fits you, the link to work with me is below. 0:00 | Who does she think she is? 1:18 | I muted those comments; here's why 3:06 | The night I walked out 5:02 | The moment I realized I could be "rude" 6:24 | The aftermath 7:56 | What leaving the table taught me 9:18 | No one was coming to save me 10:46 | My "difficult traits" have made me 12:02 | Shift the locus of control 13:01 | Whose opinion actually counts Socials and Sessions: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/hello_sibby Book: https://calendly.com/hello_seconsulting TikTok:   / sibby_56