假貴婦 → 真貴婦｜我如何從被養到自養 Shanghai Sugar Life to Self-Made Luxury

12年前，我辭掉台北市北投國小老師的工作，跟著前男友去了上海。 那三年半，我過著很多人眼中的「貴婦生活」——不用工作、有人養、出入商務艙，身邊都是高階主管。 但很少人知道，那段時間的我，其實一點都不踏實。 錢不是自己賺的， 選擇也不在自己手上。 甚至在關係裡，我被貶低、被否定，慢慢失去自信。 直到後來，我開始投資理財，建立自己的收入來源。 當我的被動收入超過當年他給我的兩萬人民幣時，我才真正理解—— 什麼叫做「貴婦」。 這支影片，不只是關於一段過去， 而是我如何從「被養」，走到「自養」的過程。 現在的我，可以很坦蕩蕩地說： 是一個不用男人養的貴婦。 12 years ago, I left my stable teaching job in Taipei and moved to Shanghai with my ex. For 3.5 years, I lived what many would call a “luxury life” — no job, business class flights, a driver, a housekeeper, and social circles filled with high-level executives. But the truth is… I didn’t feel secure at all. The money wasn’t mine. The choices weren’t mine either. And over time, I was diminished in the relationship and started to lose myself. Everything changed when I began learning about investing and building my own income. When my passive income eventually surpassed the 20,000 RMB he used to give me, I finally understood what “luxury” really means. This video isn’t just about the past. It’s about the journey from being supported… to becoming self-made. Today, I can proudly say: I am a woman who doesn’t need to be supported — I choose my own life.